Always expect a good outcome

Get used to things going well for you

When you see in your mind that life is working out for you…even when things don’t seem to be in the present moment all you can do is acknowledge your human limitations…

become one with what is

Let go of your resistance to what is Infront of you

Remind yourself you’re having a human experience

Surrender to your limitless being (soul…heart being)

You will experience discomfort and feel uncertainty. It’s normal.

Just don’t allow your present circumstances to define who you are…this is just a room remember?

Befriend versions of you that can’t believe or don’t feel worthy of success…

understand their reason
Cherish, appreciate and love them anyway
They have a role in your end goal anyway

Notice the part of you that feels resistant to winning…that can’t imagine yourself winning because you have been in a constant loop of suffering, and imagining yourself lose

Break the habit of imagining the worst
Use that energy instead to disengage from thought over and over again

And instead just surrender to the unfolding of your heart
As it comes in the present

You will find relief there

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Stop resisting and flow instead

Mmmh!

That version of you that you are resisting and pushing away is your key

When you push a part of yourself away

You are refusing a piece of information that will allow you to transcend the present problem

You get to work with ALL of you

It’s a dance

It’s a tug and pull

That’s the process of unbecoming

At some point you will have to become unavailable for the current lower, unwanted version of you…

Unavailable for the same thought patterns that bring you down, make you feel worse and helps you recycle, live the old narrative 😈

Unavailable for experiences that don’t align with you winning, becoming better, being appreciated, cherished and loved 😍

Unavailable for prolonged lacking, limitations, fear based anything

It starts with clarifying what experiences you do WANT…and DECIDING to LIVE it NOW

You suffer because you forgot

You are not meant to suffer to get what you want

But in moments you notice yourself within the loop of resistance, of chaos, fear and survival…be still

Just watch without needing to react
The more you react, the more energy you feed to that shadow body

The less you react,
You allow space in between your true self and your mind body

The more space you create, the greater the probability that you will be able to make decisions that are more in alignment with your higher self.

The more space you create between you and your thoughts, the higher the probability that you will be able to trust yourself more.

When you do this over and over again, you will feel better about the present moment

You will allow your soul to guide you out of your current dilemma over and over again

Come back to being who you know your soul says you are over and over again

Over and over again until you get what you want

That’s the secret sauce

How to connect to your true identity

Consistently connecting to just your awareness gifts you an opportunity to gain clarity.

When you lean back a little, and connect with your breath, and feel your being in your body, clothes from moment to moment, your focus will narrow back to the present moment and less on your current problems

Only from there can you reel your consciousness back towards what you want instead.

Imagine how you were as a little kid

You were in your own little world…playfully creating your reality with no limitations, fears, back stories why it’s not going to work or any of that other grimy stuff

Go back there, be still and become her

If it feels hard, scary, not realistic befriend that version of you that won’t allow you to connect with your inner child.

Ask it, why won’t you let me play in my world?

Usually it’s because you’re identifying with literally every thought, assumption, belief that’s being projected in your mind’s eye.

Life doesn’t have to break you to become who you desire to be.

You will feel a lot, as you’re peeling away stories that don’t align with the new you.

Remember you’re a sentient being, you’re meant to feel your way through towards your goals…you can’t override the truth…but you can work with what is to help you land where your heart is calling you

Your desired reality can unfold with the grace of the wind, the sultriness of water…it’s all up to how you’re driving your vision in your mind’s eye…are you assuming the best in the next moment or worrying about the worst outcome?

Either way, you’re always driving your consciousness towards somewhere

Your true identity

Being still and knowing you are what your heart sings already means you’ve already won

There’s nothing to prove

There’s just acceptance and allowing

You see things for what they are

The mind reacts to situations & creates stories based on your current/past beliefs about whatever you’re fixated on

When the reaction is not in alignment with your heart, you feel disconnected, you experience self doubt, you check out of your body and plant roots in your mind

When it feels like you’re forcing imagination, creating your reality…you forgot who you are and interacting with life from lower selves instead of higher self

When your mind is feeding you with fear, lack, limitations you’re holding yourself back from going where your soul is calling you… you’re most probably not living and enjoying your life

When you know that you are the creator, the one who has the final say…there’s more detachment and disregard of the mind’s tricks.

When the mind is quiet you are in flow with life

You are at one with life

You want to find yourself over and over again there

By being so involved with whatever is Infront of you

By choosing to have control and not be a victim to your mind you set yourself free!

The dance between old you and new YOU

Nobody said it was easy…you’re literally shedding off parts of you that don’t align with the new energy you’re expanding into. Your own b.s will be put on light…on the stage by your awareness and there will be nowhere else to go but within…to dismantle all that doesn’t align anymore. Yes it’s uncomfortable that’s why you need to prioritize your well being. When you take care of yourself, you’re extending yourself grace and acknowledging your existence is more than about just working and attracting the dough. It’s about having genuine connections with our hearts and those of other souls roaming along with you on this journey.

How would you know if something is for you if you didn’t really listen to the voice within? How could that happen when you constantly place the voice of others above your own. You are enough just as you come…cute, uncute whatever…these are just labels we use to disqualify our expansive nature. Be careful of the labels you hold onto…you’re the only one holding yourself back.

Brick by brick you can dismantle the pain into something powerful, something meaningful for you and allow it to call you into a higher mission.

Serve those who suffer too…use your skills to empower your community, join a mission you truly believe in…change is hard in the beginning but when you constantly remind yourself of your why every morning…what is your reason for living? You will always find a way to overcome whatever gets thrown your way. When you find you’re not happy, remind yourself over and over again that it begins with a choice to think and choose different. To empower ourselves religiously even when it feels like a lie. Now that’s the living word!!!

There is a way out…and that is within. Trust the process…accept the humanness…you’re still enough and worthy no matter what the voices say, nomatter what the world reflects 🌸 accept the shadows just as you do the light. There’s no shortcut…no shame and judgement allowed…just pure unconditional, patient love.

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This is why you shouldn’t believe everything your mind says

Your stream of thoughts are just a waterfall flowing through hoping you’ll manifest them charged by your attention.

When you notice yourself getting easily triggered by random thoughts and projections from the past it means that a part of you believes it even though it’s not aligned with your heart. Your mind’s eye is your temple…it should be a place of peace and restoration…so when you attach yourself to thoughts that bring you down, you know that you’ve got some work to do. The whispers might be subtle or louder depending on your personal journey…but the monkey mind is just doing it’s job.

When you notice that you’re feeding it power with your attention and you’re feeling fearful and channelling darkness…level up your self care.

I’m all about solutions and not hovering on what we don’t want. If you don’t like it fix it.

Write yourself letters to remind yourself who you are.

Go outside…escape to your happy place in your imagination so you can calm your being…revise the words that come up with empowering ones. Water sources are calming…be barefoot in nature.

Exercise…stretch, dance, run, move.

Breath intentionally. Seriously, look into breath work…life saving stuff!

Meditate & Sleep to binaural beats and suggestive reprogramming videos you feel pulled to online.

Get in the habit of allowing your soul to tell you what to do. It always has a solution to fix any problem that doesn’t end with you suffering.

When you fight the suffering it lingers…just watch dispassionately. It’s not true…but the words you believe are. You can disbelieve too. It’s all you picking and choosing what to add to your experiences.

This is controversial but this is what helped me escape my identifying with the monkey mind. I only share to give hope to someone silently suffering in their own psyche.

The voices only get louder if you fight them and you’re fearful of them. I always looked at them as a culmination of thoughts of all humans who’ve ever lived…so it’s not me, it just is. This alone will remind you that you’re not alone and why you should work on being kinder to yourself…and others.

Fears are just emotions flowing through…you can easily alchemize fear into thrill by just shifting your perspective. That’s quantum leaping. It doesn’t have to be complicated. Be thrilled that now this experience is opening a door to a new adventure where you get to see new parts of you.

Life doesn’t have to be boring and predictable. Welcome adversity with a child like mind and you’ll always win. Detach from outcome but always expect to win nomatter what. When you feel like a failure, stuck in a deep hole…change the script, perspective.

How can you use what currently is to empower you. Use this as a stepping stone to your next destination. You’re creative. I believe in you!!!

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Date yourself first

If you’re surviving…date yourself back 2 being. Find inner security first…you move & attract things that are better for you.

Survival mode makes you attract from fear…pure lack, insecurity and loose judgement. When you accept where you are and enjoy your own company with or without another one to love and to love you…you radiate soul deep love which in based on groundedness, inner authority, abundance and prosperity. Now who doesn’t want that? You’ll notice people flocking towards you because they want what you got on. You don’t want anything because you give it to yourself in reality and in your imagination.

KNOW you are worthy regardless.

Your loneliness is valid, but don’t let it lead you to settle…to numb your own emptiness, void with the existence of another. The more you distract yourself from loving you, the deeper the hole becomes…the more painful the experience will be.

Validate your desires, they are for a reason. Your soul is jingling it’s signal to let you know which direction to head. If the people coming into your life are not aligned, unfortunately you will have to let them go. I know it feels uncomfortable setting free something you thought was yours…it feels nice now, but you know what’s being shown to you doesn’t align. This is because you need to be in alignment within yourself first.

Stay curious about your own existence and your heart. Ask the right questions to yourself.

What are you about?

What brings you joy?

What are your favorite things to do?

What’s your favorite food?

Where do you see yourself in the next 1,5, 5+ years?

This is your life, pull it my the reigns and remind it what you came here to do and how you will be remembered.

How does your heart speak? What tickles it? What turns it on?

What triggers you, what kind of life…love do you want to experience? What relationship narrative will you co-create on? How do you want to be loved?

What kind of treatment and experiences should be normal for you on a daily basis? Yes, this specific and you’re worthy enough to have to choose. Do you believe it’s possible and you’re worthy to have this kind of experience?

You decide…

When the people outside of you don’t show up how you expect them to, does your worth and value shatter at their absence or do you still stand firm in knowing that you’re loveable, you’re enough, you’re worthy for everything you’re calling in.

When you do not base your worth on how others outside of yourself show up, you keep your power, your peace…and leave the privilege to validate your existence only for you. From that point, you can allow or disallow who gets to stay on your playing field…the level you interact life on.

You are the love of your life, and that’s never gonna change. No one is ever gonna know you like you know you. So stop waiting for somebody else to do your job.

You’re here, be here with you. Fully. Accept. This present moment for what it is showing you, authentically. You’re causing your own suffering by pushing against it.

You have options, always

To watch others live your dream life, to grow in frustration and misery, realizing how much you settled and didn’t actually go for your dream life.

To always see the successful as the problem. They are that because of this! Maybe you’re right, but what if they had to succumb to more they haven’t found the courage to share…

To always rely on why you can’t win…to always expect to not make it

To completely agree with thoughts that limit you, that don’t uplift you…that keep you stuck…

Or you can watch yourself live your dream…every thought, action intended to align your heart, your passion, your love with what you are creating in your mind.

To be so fully immensed in your inevitable win, your embodiment shifts in the tone of your voice, your posture, your understanding and mindset when problems arise, the new company you surround yourself with…the quality of thoughts you entertain

You now see yourself as the person you’ve always desired to be. There’s no destination or waiting period…you know the portal, door is you. Your constant decision every passing moment is the only factor that will define your projection to your goals

What are you building momentum towards?

Towards or away?

See you on the other side!