what rules keeping putting in a box?

What assumptions about your own success do you currently hold? What needs to get done for you to achieve your goals? How are you holding yourself back in your mind?

Ofcourse, we need to show up in the 3D to move so we get our desired outcome but we create more resistance when we create unnecessary pressure in our mind.

To figure it all right now.

To always be in alignment now.

To always know what to do right now.

What is the story you are believing?

Are you assuming that people are not buying your items? Are you imagining the worst possible outcome? How are you closed off to you receiving what you’re calling in?

If there’s nothing you can do right now about your current situation, what can you do with what you have? Be grateful for what you currently have? Level up yourself self care ritual? Level up your high vibe systems* e.g jogging, dancing, nature activities, watch funny shows, slow down, read a book, paint etc. *what gets you out of a funk?

When you take full responsibility for how you’re showing up energetically in the now, you will give yourself the power to shift to the identity you’re calling in…because it’s all you. You’re imagining yourself in this current storyline. The fact that you assume it is hard is the reason why you’re experiencing hard. What conversations are you entertaining in your mind? Are they making life easier for you or are they making your life harder than it should be?

“This needs to happen for A to happen”

“Hmm, I would like to experience this so I am going to do this to show my keen interest in it”

“I know the past, being any moment before now, reflected what I did not want…which is… I am not selling anything BUT from this moment on, I desire to call in the opposite this is why I am using my imagination to increase my receiving container and familiarize myself with how it would feel if it were true right now”

“I am constantly preparing myself for the new me I am calling in”

“This feels different, a little scary and uncomfortable but it’s the small price I am willing to pay for the BIG changes I am calling in. It’s all worth it and I am all in for my dream life”

Just by reading or hearing these different phrases you can already feel how differently you experience them in your body. Every time you experience an undesired outcome, keep scrapping things out of the story that don’t align…keep the story flowing towards what you do want.

Keep rowing the boat through the path of least resistance towards your desired outcome, no matter how long it takes. The more stubborn you are, the more reality has no choice but to bow down. Remember who you are goddess, we didn’t come here to think small…think BIG BB!

See you on the other side!

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If you’re surviving…date yourself back 2 being. Find inner security first…you move & attract things that are better for you.

Survival mode makes you attract from fear…pure lack, insecurity and loose judgement. When you accept where you are and enjoy your own company with or without another one to love and to love you…you radiate soul deep love which in based on groundedness, inner authority, abundance and prosperity. Now who doesn’t want that? You’ll notice people flocking towards you because they want what you got on. You don’t want anything because you give it to yourself in reality and in your imagination.

KNOW you are worthy regardless.

Your loneliness is valid, but don’t let it lead you to settle…to numb your own emptiness, void with the existence of another. The more you distract yourself from loving you, the deeper the hole becomes…the more painful the experience will be.

Validate your desires, they are for a reason. Your soul is jingling it’s signal to let you know which direction to head. If the people coming into your life are not aligned, unfortunately you will have to let them go. I know it feels uncomfortable setting free something you thought was yours…it feels nice now, but you know what’s being shown to you doesn’t align. This is because you need to be in alignment within yourself first.

Stay curious about your own existence and your heart. Ask the right questions to yourself.

What are you about?

What brings you joy?

What are your favorite things to do?

What’s your favorite food?

Where do you see yourself in the next 1,5, 5+ years?

This is your life, pull it my the reigns and remind it what you came here to do and how you will be remembered.

How does your heart speak? What tickles it? What turns it on?

What triggers you, what kind of life…love do you want to experience? What relationship narrative will you co-create on? How do you want to be loved?

What kind of treatment and experiences should be normal for you on a daily basis? Yes, this specific and you’re worthy enough to have to choose. Do you believe it’s possible and you’re worthy to have this kind of experience?

You decide…

When the people outside of you don’t show up how you expect them to, does your worth and value shatter at their absence or do you still stand firm in knowing that you’re loveable, you’re enough, you’re worthy for everything you’re calling in.

When you do not base your worth on how others outside of yourself show up, you keep your power, your peace…and leave the privilege to validate your existence only for you. From that point, you can allow or disallow who gets to stay on your playing field…the level you interact life on.

You are the love of your life, and that’s never gonna change. No one is ever gonna know you like you know you. So stop waiting for somebody else to do your job.

You’re here, be here with you. Fully. Accept. This present moment for what it is showing you, authentically. You’re causing your own suffering by pushing against it.