Bypassing reality to escape

When you choose to ignore and numb your true feelings you are missing your opportunity to connect with your true self

When you bypass the truth (what is), instead you are choosing to connect to your wounded ego which keeps you stuck in a false story, resulting in you living an unfulfilling life…living a lie. (no wonder you’re miserable)

You attract emotional unavailable souls into your orbit because you are emotionally unavailable for yourself

You point fingers at others for making you feel a certain way instead of pointing fingers at the most important person who is ignoring you

Instead when you have a devotional relationship with yourself, and you study self truthfully even when you don’t like what you see, you awaken to the love you’ve been seeking all along

When you give your lower versions unconditional love, total acceptance, cherishing, forgiveness, understanding and patience…when you give that to yourself first…you will expect it from others second…

You always lead and show others how you want to be loved by embodying it, by becoming, by being, by doing it for yourself first.

Everybody else is just following suit to your normal

You are leveling up the playing field

Expect to meet those who don’t love or are resisting parts of themselves knowingly or not,

you will know and see those who wear masks because you’ve become comfortable with your own shadows

Shadow work is uncomfortable but the rewards are priceless

Keep showing up

It’s totally worth it!

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Date yourself first

If you’re surviving…date yourself back 2 being. Find inner security first…you move & attract things that are better for you.

Survival mode makes you attract from fear…pure lack, insecurity and loose judgement. When you accept where you are and enjoy your own company with or without another one to love and to love you…you radiate soul deep love which in based on groundedness, inner authority, abundance and prosperity. Now who doesn’t want that? You’ll notice people flocking towards you because they want what you got on. You don’t want anything because you give it to yourself in reality and in your imagination.

KNOW you are worthy regardless.

Your loneliness is valid, but don’t let it lead you to settle…to numb your own emptiness, void with the existence of another. The more you distract yourself from loving you, the deeper the hole becomes…the more painful the experience will be.

Validate your desires, they are for a reason. Your soul is jingling it’s signal to let you know which direction to head. If the people coming into your life are not aligned, unfortunately you will have to let them go. I know it feels uncomfortable setting free something you thought was yours…it feels nice now, but you know what’s being shown to you doesn’t align. This is because you need to be in alignment within yourself first.

Stay curious about your own existence and your heart. Ask the right questions to yourself.

What are you about?

What brings you joy?

What are your favorite things to do?

What’s your favorite food?

Where do you see yourself in the next 1,5, 5+ years?

This is your life, pull it my the reigns and remind it what you came here to do and how you will be remembered.

How does your heart speak? What tickles it? What turns it on?

What triggers you, what kind of life…love do you want to experience? What relationship narrative will you co-create on? How do you want to be loved?

What kind of treatment and experiences should be normal for you on a daily basis? Yes, this specific and you’re worthy enough to have to choose. Do you believe it’s possible and you’re worthy to have this kind of experience?

You decide…

When the people outside of you don’t show up how you expect them to, does your worth and value shatter at their absence or do you still stand firm in knowing that you’re loveable, you’re enough, you’re worthy for everything you’re calling in.

When you do not base your worth on how others outside of yourself show up, you keep your power, your peace…and leave the privilege to validate your existence only for you. From that point, you can allow or disallow who gets to stay on your playing field…the level you interact life on.

You are the love of your life, and that’s never gonna change. No one is ever gonna know you like you know you. So stop waiting for somebody else to do your job.

You’re here, be here with you. Fully. Accept. This present moment for what it is showing you, authentically. You’re causing your own suffering by pushing against it.