Bypassing reality to escape

When you choose to ignore and numb your true feelings you are missing your opportunity to connect with your true self

When you bypass the truth (what is), instead you are choosing to connect to your wounded ego which keeps you stuck in a false story, resulting in you living an unfulfilling life…living a lie. (no wonder you’re miserable)

You attract emotional unavailable souls into your orbit because you are emotionally unavailable for yourself

You point fingers at others for making you feel a certain way instead of pointing fingers at the most important person who is ignoring you

Instead when you have a devotional relationship with yourself, and you study self truthfully even when you don’t like what you see, you awaken to the love you’ve been seeking all along

When you give your lower versions unconditional love, total acceptance, cherishing, forgiveness, understanding and patience…when you give that to yourself first…you will expect it from others second…

You always lead and show others how you want to be loved by embodying it, by becoming, by being, by doing it for yourself first.

Everybody else is just following suit to your normal

You are leveling up the playing field

Expect to meet those who don’t love or are resisting parts of themselves knowingly or not,

you will know and see those who wear masks because you’ve become comfortable with your own shadows

Shadow work is uncomfortable but the rewards are priceless

Keep showing up

It’s totally worth it!

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there’s a reason it doesn’t feel good

entertaining mental arguments

reliving the past

wishing you had done something differently

feeling inferior

forcing

worrying

resisting

lacking

fearing

imagining the worst

distrusting yourself and others

limited thinking…

you need to get used to switching up perspectives so you can easily maneuver your current reality to your desired reality

get used to being in a different storyline within a second while not losing your feeling of inner security & sanity. be fully housed in your being.

the feelings of discomfort are normal, you’re pushing yourself against the grain, the limit you set for yourself for a while.

stretch, breathe, ground yourself outside with bare feet, dance, sing, hum…allow your energy to continue to move, don’t just let it remain stagnant without it manifesting into some expression. don’t overthink it…start moving intuitively RIGHT NOW…I DARE YOUUU!

See how that feels?!

feeling good is in alignment with abundance, prosperity, joy, peace and bliss…they all aim for the same thing…love

love the body you have, touch your skin with such delicate, soft and intentional strokes. imagine, say nice thoughts. randomly remind yourself while you love your chuckle or the way you walk. own it!

no need to rush it and fake it. be really there. in the present with everything that is…just the way it is. no need to judge, to criticize or to feel shame.

instead, love all these parts of you the way you wished another did. do it for yourself because you’re tired of just giving yourself up like that to strangers when you don’t even know yourself.

experience yourself more.

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success

I believe the main cause for a lot of people’s unhappiness is because they are chasing success, and they have a mental image of what success looks like and when they match it to their current lives…they feel depressed and like a complete failure.
there is a lot of pressure to succeed and most of this is fueled by the ego’s needs. It wants to feel important. It is usually not coming from the heart.
do you feel fulfilled in your current life?
are you happy?
do you feel connected to your body?
have you healed your childhood wounds?
are you feeding your body with nourishing & healing foods?
do you like your social group? do you have a good support system?

these should be the true indicators of success for human beings.

it’s funny how when you find contentment in just being in the now, everything seems to fall into place
you just need to get out of your own way
learn to trust yourself a little more and find pleasure in not having anything
this does not mean don’t go for your material goals, abso-freaking-not-ly
I just want it to come from a place of truth, your own truth.
I want you to always feel successful and wake up with a smile on your face every morning
so, start feeling successful right now
why?
because you are alive, because you showed up for yourself and reading or listening to this post
because you are always showing up every day to better yourself and to check your alignment coordinates with source
you are choosing to be happy, prioritize your mental wellbeing
because you are choosing you every time you take an action towards personal development, health and breaking generational “curses” for your bloodline
it’s all in the atomic intentions
keep showing up for yourself
success is inevitable my friend