When you fight your mind you lose
When you remember you are not your mind, you will free yourself and actually see the mental realm for what it actually is…a playing ground.
This doesn’t mean there won’t be triggers and intrusive thoughts that bring you down.
Life happens and it might bring you down to your knees.
What actually matters is how you choose to see yourself in the midst of life’s chaos…where you draw the line in what you’re available for.
Your consciousness is a ball of energy that is available for your spending.
You spend when you focus on something and expand it into your experience.
The past is dead, you resurrect it every time you revisit and relive it over and over again. You’re busy carry zombie energy when you’re supposed to be floating up in the ethers experiencing expansion, freedom, expansion, joy, serenity.
Something has to change cause clearly your mind patterns ain’t cutting it.
This is how you can begin, by being mentally resilient:
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(meeting my dense, shadow body)
I was dealing with inner criticism, self-doubt, shame, lack, fear, guilt, inferiority, struggle, powerlessness all at the same time for 5 years.
They call it the dark night of the soul
I woke up and realized I was living a lie.
I was disconnected from my soul.
I was living according to other people’s ideals on what success looks like.
I thought if I played along their script, I’ll finally feel loved, fulfilled and enough.
But we both know that’s backward.
Every action I took felt contrived, forced and so disconnected from my inner being.
I wasn’t in love with life.
I was chasing life.
I was never enough.
I did things so that I could prove my worth.
I created stories in my mind that boosted my ego, so that I could feel a false sense of superiority (others had to be smaller than me for me to feel successful)
I lived in my mind to the point that I bought every negative thought and experienced it.
I became disconnected from life because I was constantly living in the past…reliving the worst things that had happened.
I hadn’t laughed, genuinely in 5 years.
I created and planted roots in my dense body.
My constant worry and focus on death, losing people & imagining people thinking the worst of me was a constant blow to my quality of life
Of course naturally this spiral led me to a point where I couldn’t even bring myself to work, eat, socialize, pay bills. I was depressed to the point of debilitation.
The voices in my head were so loud!
My constant thought was, “who is gonna see me”, “what will people think”
I was giving away my power away over and over again.
I gave away my energy to things that didn’t fuel my soul.
I was killing myself slowly.
This was my crash course in dense,shadow body.
The other side of humans is often tuck away in the spiritual community because “positivity only and life is always perfect“
So toxic!
The truth is, humans are created to experience both sides of the spectrum of life.
Light and dark.
To be happy and to be sad!
To be overjoyed and to be disappointed.
To be erhh and to be yasss!
Life is about experiencing all that.
Your mountain is your inbuilt success story. Do not run away from it.
You overcome it not for you only, but for those who depend on you to succeed.
Naturally by overcoming you will become wiser, more resilient and you will experience your innate power and ability to overcome.
No matter how tough it gets, this is just a room you’re passing by…gathering your information and training for your journey ahead.
It’s all about how you look at things and how you interact with your past and present reality.
Always remember, no matter how bad it looks…it is just a room.
If it feels like you’re forcing to the point of burn out and disconnecting from yourself…it is the wrong path.
Crying is healthy.
Failures are healthy.
Starting all over again is healthy.
Being honest with yourself and still choosing to love & accept yourself despite where you are (vs. the internet peeps are) is healthy.
Also, No comparison allowed, that’s disrespect to your inner child. Choose to create boundaries around what you say and think about yourself, it will save you so much energy.
Choose to love you despite where you are and you will always be ok.
Your ego will try to shame you, humiliate you, make you feel inferior, feel bad and seduce you back to the spiral but you have to be sick and tired of being sick tired.
You have to say NO! I’m done with this!!!
Are you currently in a dense, dark body right now?
Let’s work together
I don’t bite!
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Better yet, if you’re ready to reconnect with your soul, I suggest you tap into the portal that is calling you in.
If you’re having a hard time connecting to your truth, the odds are you’re not being honest with yourself, your past. You’re suffering because you are living a lie.
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See you on the other side soul babe!
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Stop trying to figure it all out
Life is a mystery
It is meant to be that way
How fun would knowing every single detail be
Imagine how stressful it was to know everything that was about to go down in that instant
Instead why not take advantage of the gift life has given you, to be carefree, to be allowing, to be surrendered, to be playful with life.
The mind wants to trick you to believe that you are separate from your desires…when you notice yourself continuously identifying with your thoughts-you will notice you tend to suffer more and are struggling with your presence.
When instead you identify yourself with your breath, your senses, your heartbeat, your awareness you free yourself from the mental cage you placed onto yourself.
Mental alchemy* only works effectively when you are grounded in your being, when you are truly connected to your I AM.
✨Are you ready to put in the work with your shadow, dense self so you can simmer down the mental suffering?
✨ Are you all in to shed off parts of you that are holding you back from enjoying life and connecting with your lightbody?
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-taking stock of what you’re being and choosing unconditional love & radical acceptance.
-noticing what is within your control and what isn’t
-purging versions of you that you don’t want to identify with anymore
– allowing your soul to flow you back to grace when you go back to identifying self with your mind
Private message me “ELDORADO” here or email me with the headline “ELDORADO” to see if you’ll be a great fit for the container.
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With service
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Life is a very vivid dream
Your journey on this Earth is not forever so you need to start taking your heart’s desires a little more seriously before your time here runs out. We don’t know when. So now is the only time you’ve got.
Stay present and notice how you’ve been spending your energy in the last 24 hours. Is it in alignment with what you desire for yourself?
What story have you been telling yourself about your misalignment?
Your imagination is the source of your suffering as well as the source of your wellbeing. I’ll let you reflect on your own use of thought and assumptions about your third dimensional reality right now. (Your reflected reality)
How does your life feel right now?
Expansive or constricted?
What’s the source of that?
What quality of thoughts are you holding onto that are running your current narrative right now? This is the level of presence you need to get to flip the switch to a better narrative. small you is pushing you towards BIG YOU.
But first, you need to take responsibility for where you are so you can shift to a better version of you that receives better results. Nothing changes if you don’t.
Allow your soul to just play in this reality…shake off thoughts that disempower you and bring you back to density. Your mission on earth is to ascend so you might as well do whatever it takes to get up there. You are a light being so this should be easy peasy right?
You’re narrating a story in each passing moment psychically.
If you don’t like where this is going, stop, and narrate something different.
What you’re currently experiencing is not set in stone, you feel stuck because you’re making yourself stuck. In this coming moment, find a lighter perspective that allows you to alleviate yourself from your suffering!!!
Awaken your inner child, let her play. Let your imagination run free towards your goals. Your logical mind will try to pull you back into your third density but you’re light at your core, so do not let it into your driver seat. That’s your throne!!!
Your heart’s desires have already arrived, stop pushing them away. Allow them in. Allow yourself to expand, feel good and light!!!
If you’re having a hard time with your mental realm and need assistance with activating your light body to retrace your way back home to your bliss state,
Private message me, “Soul babe” when you click the button below 👇🏾
Remove the pressure to be elsewhere other than now. You have already arrived. Release the resistance to what is and just allow yourself to enjoy life right here right now. The dream is already realized.
Click button below to tap in on how you can extend grace to your present self so you can start enjoying life right now
See you on the other side!
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Let it go 22 times
The past (you) wants to fight the present you any chance it gets. It wants to remind you why you’re not it. Why you’re not worthy of what your heart sings to you. It keeps bringing up what you don’t want…and you keep entertaining it, you keep it relevant. You keep playing with it in your mind because you believe you have to keep fighting to KNOW.
When you know, you know. Nothing the mind does can change that. That’s where you need to be. That’s who you need to become to find your state of peace again. Keep letting that constrictive voice go…do it over and over again. Disengage. It will keep persisting, finding loopholes to get your attention. You keep persisting even more and since this is your territory anyway, since this is your house…you always end on top. PERIOD POOH on MARY HAD A LITTLE LAMB.
Become unavailable for the mind tricks. Become unavailable for the energy sucking thoughts. Become unavailable for the misaligned you.
Discipline yourself. Deny self consistently.
When you forget, you’re human, but don’t let that moment define you. Allow it to be a reminder of your winning mindset and the reason why you’re gonna be on top. Experience is the greatest teacher, let it lead you to mastery.
Keep on keeping on.
This is how you can become mentally resilient
See you on the other side!
Your lack of trust is digging your hole of lonely thoughts and assumptions
Lack of trust in self
Lack of trust in others
Lack of trust in life
Your ground is not secure…why are you carrying all the weight, hurt, fears from the past and what isn’t yet? Why do you steal your own happiness?
Surrender to the being you’re being right now and surrender to the room you’re in right now. Remember When you awaken your soul the whole world can hear you…7 billion+ hearts can feel you…you just need to open your heart to feeeeeel the truth, to live and love authentically.
Open your heart to awaken to your truths now
Be aware of the gifts that will ooze and drop out of this 36 soul transmission. Trust the process. Let go of the need to judge for just 36 mins. Listen to your self. Awaken to your love 36 times over.
How many times have you let someone talk you out of your ideas and goals because they said it was impossible to make it happen?
How many times has the little girl inside of you been disappointed and heartbroken because of the no’s from everybody around her?
How often do you second guess yourself? Question if you’re doing the right thing? The longer you linger here the faster you will kill your momentum.
The only voice that should stand is your own. The words that you say to yourself to remember who you really are. This is why the work of self love is so essential. You need patience, consistency, compassion and forgiveness. You will meet parts of yourself that show you what not loving yourself will look like. The wisdom has to come from somewhere, and you learn best from your own mistakes.
Learn to share less your dreams and goals with people who might not have the container to receive it. When people disempower and try to unplug your vision…choose to see it as them wanting to pull you back to the level you’re levelling up from. This is your test…are you gonna commit to it or just quit because someone sparked their projected fear and you held onto their disbelief longer than you were supposed to.
Revise consistently what is coming up that doesn’t support or align with your vision. Your goals are sacred…they are your inner child’s desires…your creator’s gifts to you. Accept the task with a head held high. You are here because no one else can do it like you do.
Stop assuming that you’re in the wrong place. YOU ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE. Breatheeeee. Drop your shoulders. Plant your feet into the ground. Drop the weight you’re still holding onto. Stretch your arms as you take your next breathe…feel your body…the contact with ground/shoes/socks/carpet etc.
If you have 30 mins just for yourself, I’ll guide you into a grounding exercise. Start now
See you on the other side!
Experiencing chaos and confusion in your life is a reflection of not being centered within. You’re listening too much to your mind, drop down to your heart, focus your attention there instead. Focus on what is important, your well-being. If you lose you, you won’t be able to fend for yourself…pay your bills, buy nourishing food etc. Invest in your health. Invest in your mindset for this journey to the end. Come to peace with everything. Or not. But remember you always have a choice.
It’s time to make decisions about what you really want!
1. What is a priority right now? Write it down with due dates
2. What specifically needs to get done? Do you need help, with what? What can you delegate? Expand your vision, when you limit how far you can go you feel frustrated because you’re closing yourself off from so many creative solutions. Just picture the end goal, how it would feel having all your nagging tasks done, finally! How does it feel in your body?
3.What are the limitations? What is a barrier to you succeeding? What can you do about it now? Why do you think you’re not gonna get it? How can you trust and assume the best regardless of what’s being shown to you?
4. Are you happy in your current lifestyle? What do you really desire? What would it feel like having it? What’s stopping you from feeling like this all the time? What do you have to lose?
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Everyone wants 2 be an expert at something, open this app & you’ll see people exerting their own opinions…truths on anything. Nothing wrong with that…but when you find yourself chasing and collecting information so that you feel ready, enough & worthy to be somebody you’re on a path of failure.
Why not be an expert as something nobody can tell you anything on…you. listen 2 your heart…your being…what are you hoping this person will bring you….what do you hope being associated with this group will make you feel.
When you come off social media, and have conversations remember 2 dust off beliefs, fears & thoughts that don’t align with your heart. It’s easy 2 be persuaded away from your heart but at the end of the day, you’re the one you have 2 live with…when you dishonor your heart. Everyone is a messenger…a mirror for what’s within. So look inside to find the answers you’re looking for…you’re complete.
Life is long when you carry misery with you.
It is short and sweet when you bring joy and you’re free 2 be yourself.
Sri Venus 